We need to get back to the good old fashioned way of doing some things to restore Humanity. The first should be honesty. It use to be "A man is only as good as his word" and a simple hand shake would seal the deal. Nowadays they say "Don't believe a word you hear", and even if you get it in writing it doesn't mean a thing. It is better to tell someone an honest No then to say Yes knowing you really mean No Way, that is not OK. Just as you decide whether to eat a hamburger or a pizza for dinner you decide whether to be honest or not.