It's not always easy but as long as it is doable then you can do it

When you find yourself dwelling on what has happened, remind yourself it could have been worse. It may not be easy but as long as it is doable you have to be thankful that it wasn't worse. It's like being thankful your roof is leaking because some people don't have a home. It is what it is but how you react to it will determine how it will affect you. I am sure you have heard the old saying "Anyone can make a mountain out of a mole hill if they keep adding dirt." It's all in how you look at it. Once it has happened, ask yourself, what positive outcome could there possibly be? Keep searching for all the positive that could possibly result from it and you just might one day say I am glad that happened or I would not be where I am nor who I am today. It may at times throughout your life feel like a tornado when negative situations hit you all at once. But sometimes it takes a tornado to get you where you need to be because you weren't going to get there any other way. Seasons come and seasons go in our lives just like it does in nature. There are reasons for the seasons and everything happens for a reason. What you see will be determined by what you are looking for.