Shape your reality

The only thing that you get decide is what you create in your home, your space, your four walls, your mind, body, and soul. "Your point of view" is your reality so look with your eyes wide open and think long and hard about what you see before you form an opinion that will be your "point of view" that will ultimately lead you to shape your reality based on what you choose to see. Take the time to think about it before you are forced to live with the outcome that you made without opening your eyes to see which direction you should go.

Make your "to do" list shorter

There is not enough time in the day to get everything done that needs to get done. Don't overwhelm yourself and use your energy filling your mind with everything that needs to be done. Focus on what is most important and get those things done first. With that out of the way you will have a shorter "to do" list that will be only the things that need to be done but don't have to be done. You would get a lot more done off your short list if you ease your mind by getting the most important things done and out of the way first.

Without seeing what's inside

If you run around reacting negatively to things that don't go your way it will only make things worse. Everything happens for a reason but no matter what good was to come your reaction will determine whether you will see the positive outcome that was suppose to be. You can be your worst enemy when you react negatively. You can see new doors open if you look for it positively or you can close one door after another as you react with anger without ever getting to see the opportunity that was waiting for you inside.

Stop long enough to see

You never know when the answer you need may come nor who it may come from. By taking the time to just talk with others through simple conversations they just might lead you in a direction that will lead you to the answer you were looking for. People seem to be in too big of a hurry or too distracted to make friendly small talk with others which could lead them to the answer they need. They wouldn't be in a hurry running around looking for the answer if they would stop long enough to see the path they will have to take to find what they are looking for.

Just Plunge It........then Flush

There are far too many things that we let clog up our mind when we need to "Just Plunge It.....then Flush." We could eliminate so much of our stress by simply deciding to get rid of the crap in our life. We carry around things that do not matter what-so-ever at this point in our life's yet we let them weigh us down and clog us up. Let go of the painful experiences from your past and "Just Flush It" out of your mind. If it tries to stick around......"Just Plunge It.....then Flush."

Get your act together

Getting your act together starts with "getting real" with yourself and the truth will hurt but it will be necessary. Since you alone will have to deal with the consequences for everything you say or do make sure you set standards and live by them no matter what anyone else around you is doing. If you know it's NOT going to help you become a better you then you better NOT do it. If you know it will lead you no where then turn away from it.

Flush away a bad day

Have you ever met someone who seemed to always be having a bad day? Try making them laugh to help them flush away a bad day. Sometimes the answer to their problem they can handle they just need someone to acknowledge that they are dealing with the problem. If you take the time to listen it will help them have a good day, they just need to tell someone so they can "Just Flush It" out of their mind.

Somethings come with age

There are somethings that just come with age no matter how hard you try not to be.....well old. It just happens along with all the hard knocks that make you wise comes all the aches and pains from the many years of lessons you have lived through. If you remember something that you did once that was fun plan to do it again while you can. Getting older has it's perks and if you enjoy yourself even the "not so pleasant moments" are fond memories that make you smile.

It could be worse

We all have met someone who's circumstances in life are tragic yet they seem so happy and optimistic. It makes us wander how they do it yet there are others who's lives are no where near as tough yet they get angry at the simplest things and become immobilized. There are many things that we should be thankful for and be happy about. You will never get everything you want but you should definitely be happy with what you got because "it could be worse." Just waking up in the morning is a reason to smile.

Do things differently

It does not matter how many chances you are given you will have no chance at all unless you take a chance at something. Many things are possible but if you never try, it will be impossible for you. If you want a life worth living it will take hard work. The choice is yours to make so stop blaming others for your choice to do nothing at all. If you want a different outcome in your life you are just going to have to do things differently.

What are you looking for?

WHEN YOU look for a person or a reason to blame you can definitely find one.
WHEN YOU look for the faults of others you can definitely find many.
WHEN YOU look for trouble you can definitely find it.
WHEN YOU decide not to try then you can definitely say you will not succeed.
IF YOU look for a bright side you can usually find one.
IF YOU look for a solution you can usually find one.
IF YOU look for a reason to smile you can usually find a reason.
What are you looking for?

No matter what

The seasons are going to change from one to another just like they always have no matter what you say or do. As we age our bodies go through the changes no matter what you say or do. Accept the things you can not change and save your energy complaining about them because they are going to happen no matter what you say or do. No matter where, when, or how you slice it you can only do what you can do and "Just Flush It" out of your mind if it just can't be done.

Make a path

You can not reach your goal unless you set one. Keep it simple. Don't make a goal that is unreachable nor set a time frame that is unrealistic. As you make a plan to reach your goal don't forget about all the hard work it will take to get there. You can reach it if you stay focused on it no matter what obstacles come your way. The set backs as you climb are just the path you will have to take to get there.