Where you have been is not nearly as important as where you are going now. What you did back then may not work today. If you find yourself in a mess that is holding you back and yo are under too much stress "Just flush It" if you can. You can't please everyone and you can't fix everything. You will be fine if you leave behind the extra baggage that is weighing you down. You will worry less if you worry about what you can fix not what you can't.