A GIANT THING may NEVER HAPPEN so.....

    Are you really WAITING for something extremely Big to happen?

    We all HOPE for something extremely BIG but.... unfortunately there are NOT MANY BIG THINGS that really happen very often if they even Happen  at all.

     In LIFE it is the IMPORTANT LITTLE THINGS that really happen all throughout your LIFE.

    UNFORTUNATELY if you IGNORE all the LITTLE THINGS you might IGNORE the MOST IMPORTANT THINGS in YOUR LIFE.

     You might not ACTUALLY FLY A PLANE like you had DREAMED but you can sure ENJOY TRAVELING to many places.

    You might not be a FAMOUS ARTIST but you can still ENJOY DOING ARTFUL THINGS.

     You might not be the SMARTEST PERSON but you are SMART enough to KNOW what MAKES YOU HAPPY.

    And if it MAKES YOU HAPPY then DO IT so you can be HAPPY.

     If you SPEND all your time trying to PLEASE OTHERS you will realize that YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY.

     Because the TRUTH is that if you KEEP CHANGING to please others.... you will NEVER GET TO BE YOUR HONEST SELF.

      WE all only have the TIME WE HAVE so MAKE SURE YOU ENJOY EVERY MOMENT YOU HAVE.

      At the END OF THE DAY all that matters is that you are PROUD OF EVERYTHING that you have CHOSEN TO DO.

       It's your Life..... so always CHOOSE WISELY what is actually the MOST IMPORTANT thing for YOU TO DO.

       

      

BEGIN by.... LEARNING so you can MAKE A LIST

      If you EXPECT to PAINT IT..... then you must MAKE A LIST of EVERYTHING that you will NEED TO BE ABLE TO PAINT IT.

    If you FORGET to BUY SOME PAINTERS TAPE then you may have to WORK HARDER to keep a STRAIGHT LINE.

   If you don't BUY the RIGHT PAINT BRUSH you might find it HARDER to get the CORNERS done.

    BEFORE you START ANY PROJECT you NEED TO MAKE A LIST of EVERYTHING you WILL NEED to GET IT DONE.

    If you KNOW that YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO DO IT.....then ASK SOMEONE WHO DOES KNOW.

   How many times have you IGNORED THE INSTRUCTIONS and TRIED to just put it TOGETHER?

    ONLY to later EVENTUALLY REALIZE that YOU WILL have to GET THE INSTRUCTIONS out because YOU DIDN'T DO IT CORRECTLY.

    MAKING A POSITIVE PLAN means that YOU WILL take the TIME to LEARN EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW to MAKE A LIST of EVERYTHING that you will NEED to DO IT.

     Every RECIPE has SPECIFIC INGREDIENTS and if you want to MAKE that RECIPE.... then you will NEED the LIST of INGREDIENTS.

     No one is BORN KNOWING EVERYTHING.....WE ALL have to LEARN AS WE GO.

    

Not EVERYTHING means THE SAME to EVERYONE

      You may NOT LIKE IT but that DOESN'T MEAN that there are NOT MANY PEOPLE WHO DO LIKE IT.

      When you say IT WAS REALLY SPICY tasting it DOESN'T MEAN that people who LOVE SPICY FOOD would EVEN CONSIDER IT TO BE SPICY AT ALL.

     YOUR DECISIONS are based on what YOU LIKE just like THEIR DECISIONS are based on what THEY LIKE.

     If you EXPECT to have a RIGHT TO THINK YOUR OWN WAY it is ONLY POSSIBLE if you RESPECT the way OTHER PEOPLE CHOOSE TO THINK.

     I may NOT AGREE with EVERYTHING that STRANGERS NOR EVEN MY OWN FAMILY AND FRIENDS THINK but...

    ... that DOESN'T MEAN that WE ALL can't JUST ENJOY OUR LIVES TOGETHER..... DESPITE all of OUR DIFFERENCES.

     NEXT TIME you see a CERTAIN SUBJECT that is CAUSING THINGS to become FRUSTRATING.... JUST FLUSH IT.... and CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

     We DON'T HAVE TO AGREE to AGREE....WE JUST  HAVE TO....JUST FLUSH IT and DISAGREE TO DISAGREE PEACEFULLY.

     

     

MAKE A DECISION then ... STICK TO IT

      If you want them to KNOW THAT YOU MEAN IT then.... DON'T SAY IT UNLESS YOU MEAN IT.

     If you KNOW that CERTAIN FOODS UPSET YOUR STOMACH then..... DON'T EAT IT or you will have an UPSET STOMACH.

     If you KNOW that YOU SHOULDN'T then.... Make sure YOU DON'T DO IT.

     REMEMBER that just because OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING IT definitely DOESN'T MEAN that it is the RIGHT THING FOR YOU TO DO.

      YOUR Life is based on what YOU DO not based on what OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING.

      If THINGS NEED TO CHANGE then ...DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY so THINGS CAN CHANGE.

     If it is SOMETHING that YOU ARE AGAINST then.... MAKE SURE that NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS YOU WILL NEVER DO IT.

     YOUR LIFE is FULL OF CHOICES and EVERY CHOICE YOU MAKE MATTERS.

ASK YOURSELF and BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF

     You may have a LOT OF LOVE IN YOUR HEART but ASK YOURSELF if anyone else FEELS YOUR LOVE.

     You may KNOW THE RIGHT ANSWER but it WON'T HELP ANYONE if you NEVER TELL THEM THE ANSWER AT ALL.

    You may KNOW but....  WILL YOU ADMIT THAT YOU KNOW IT?

    If you KNOW THAT YOU SHOULDN'T then make sure that YOU DON'T or you will DEFINITELY REGRET DOING IT.

    THROUGHOUT LIFE you can LIE TO OTHERS during certain circumstances but if YOU EVER LIE TO YOURSELF then YOU DEFINITELY WILL HAVE MAJOR PROBLEMS.

    If you want to KNOW then ASK YOURSELF and NO MATTER WHAT THE ANSWER IS JUST BE HONEST so EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT.

   HONESTY is the ONLY WAY to ALWAYS STAY HONEST.

Trying to SHARE can be SHAMEFULLY IGNORED

      You may want to SHARE some GOOD ADVICE but UNFORTUNATELY that DOESN'T MEAN it WILL BE HEARD.

     You want to PREVENT them from FUMBLING but UNFORTUNATELY they may still FUMBLE AS THEY FALL.

     You want to SAVE them from FRUSTRATION but they can be TOTALLY FRUSTRATED as they STRUGGLE THROUGH IT.

     Sometimes the STRUGGLES they FACE may be PART OF THEIR GROWING PAINS to be the BEST PERSON they can be.

     UNFORTUNATELY LIFE IS A ROLLERCOASTER of EVENTS and sometimes those EXPERIENCES CAN BE PAINFUL yet TOTALLY NECESSARY to LEARN AS YOU GO.

     

     

You can SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES but that DOESN'T MEAN anyone will truly hear

      I REMEMBER when I was a YOUNG CHILD I saw them WARNING ME but I was NOT REALLY LISTENING to them.

    When you are YOUNG you have NO FEAR you just have TOTAL EXCITEMENT about everything that LIFE HAS TO OFFER.

    When I would FUMBLE on a RECENT ADVENTURE I would just LOOK FOR A NEW ADVENTURE that I can ENJOY DOING.

    BUT..... when you are OLDER and you want to SAVE SOMEONE YOU LOVE from FUMBLES you SEE THAT JUST LIKE YOURSELF at a YOUNG AGE.... they just DON'T LISTEN.

      You CANT PREVENT them from FUMBLING but you SURE CAN be there to HOLD THEM after they FUMBLE THROUGH THEIR LIVES.

     They DON'T WANT TO HEAR I told you NOT TO DO IT they just want you to HUG THEM and TELL THEM EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY.