SHOW THEM so THEY will KNOW

     If someone at a red light leaves a spot for you to be able to pull into traffic.... would you WAVE TO THANK THEM? 

     I KNOW I LIKE IT when someone I LET OUT takes a second and WAVES to me to say THANKS.

     So if someone SAVES you room please WAVE TO THANK THEM because that WAVE will MAKE THEM SMILE.

     Has someone ever HELD A DOOR OPEN for you at a STORE or a Post Office?

     I KNOW HOW PROUD I am when I see someone SMILE as my GROWN SON always HOLDS THE DOOR every chance someone is coming.

    He says HOLDING THE DOOR OPEN seems to ALWAYS MAKE OTHER PEOPLE HAPPY and that MADE HIM HAPPY.

     As we talked he said he also took NOTICE when someone WAVES whenever he SAVES THEM ROOM TO GET OUT.

    You can make a POSITIVE DIFFERENCE in SIMPLE WAYS just by MAKING PEOPLE SMILE FROM YOUR KINDNESS.

    Whether you are YOUNG or you are MIDDLE AGED OR EVEN OLD we can always be KIND to EVERYONE WE MEET.

    EVERY random act of KINDNESS will be a POSITIVE DIFFERENCE to ANYONE WHO RECEIVED IT.

    EVERY POSITIVE SEEDS WE PLANT is more POSITIVE SEEDS THAT WILL GROW.

    PEACE ON EARTH is possible by bringing PEACE OF MIND to ONE PERSON at a TIME.

    Time to Wear your JUST FLUSH IT shirts and hats to SPREAD the POSITIVE MESSAGE behind JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND can SPREAD.

    A SMILE says PEACE in ANY LANGUAGE.

     

     

     

     

     

What you do when YOU ARE YOUNG V.S. what you DO WHEN YOU ARE OLD

      Do you PRINT OUT your PICTURES and STORE THEM IN PHOTO ALBUMS?

     If you are OLD you probably have lots of OLD PHOTO ALBUMS but..... you RARELY LOOK at them.

      UNFORTUNATELY the YOUNGER you are the PHOTOS ON YOUR PHONE can get LOST FOREVER IN CYBERSPACE.

      When I was recently going through an OLD PHOTO ALBUM I was SHOCKED to see the TYPE OF CLOTHES we were all wearing.

     I DEFINITELY DON'T REMEMBER me ever wearing those WAY TOO SHORT SHORTS....but THERE I AM in SHORTS that are SO SHORT I am EMBARRASSED.

      If I HAD NOT SAW MYSELF in those OLD PHOTOS I would have NEVER BELIEVED I WOULD DRESS LIKE THAT.....but I OBVIOUSLY DID.

     Just because you DON'T REMEMBER EVERYTHING.... REMEMBER....a PICTURE IS DEFINITELY PROOF.

      You might be OLD NOW but there was a TIME WHEN YOU WERE YOUNG TOO.

      KIDS do things that YOUNG KIDS DO then.... THEY GROW UP AND DO GROWN UP THINGS. 

     

BELIEVE in YOURSELF

     There is always MORE than ONE WAY to SEE IT but.... HOW YOU SEE IT will determine WHAT YOU WILL be able to SEE 

     If YOU DON'T BELIEVE IT then.... YOU JUST WON'T EVER SEE IT.

     If YOU CONSTANTLY SAY YOU CAN'T then.... YOU WON'T..... because YOU WILL NEVER TRY TO DO IT.

     When you do make a MISTAKE then.... LEARN FROM IT then YOU CAN DO IT because YOU LEARNED HOW TO DO IT CORRECTLY.

     STOP EXPECTING to ALWAYS KNOW EVERYTHING just EXCEPT that you will be able to LEARN AS YOU GO through your LIFE'S JOURNEY.

    YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE ELSE'S APPROVAL...ALL YOU NEED IS TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

    Your LIFE is based on WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN.... SO THINK POSITIVELY so YOU CAN BE A POSITIVE PERSON.

    WE all ONLY HAVE the TIME WE HAVE to ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WE HAVE.

     

ENJOYING LIFE means.... doing what YOU WANT TO DO

      You don't have to do it unless you WANT TO DO IT..... despite what OTHERS around you are thinking about it.

     You can CHOOSE and therefore DECIDE by DOING what you CHOOSE TO DO and let THEM CHOOSE what they WANT TO DO.

     ENJOY Going out to a restaurant together that has both regular food as well as vegetarian foods so EVERYONE can ENJOY EATING together what EACH of you like. 

     Some PEOPLE CHOOSE to wear clothes that are COMFORTABLE to them regardless of whether you WOULD WEAR IT or NOT....you CHOOSE what YOU WILL WEAR.

     STOP JUDGING what OTHER PEOPLE DO and let THEM DO what THEY WANT TO DO and YOU CHOOSE WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.

     TEN PEOPLE could SEE the same thing yet SEE TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS... because HOW YOU LOOK AT IT will DETERMINE WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

      Our UNIQUENESS is what makes us ALL UNIQUELY DIFFERENT and what we EACH like is also UNIQUELY DIFFERENT....so....

     YOU DO YOU and let THEM be THEM and then WE ALL can ENJOY BEING OURSELVES.

     Your BEST FRIEND can be TOTALLY DIFFERENT than YOU but still be YOUR BEST FRIEND EVER.

      YOU CAN'T ALWAYS PLEASE EVERYONE but YOU CAN DEFINITELY ALWAYS PLEASE YOURSELF.

     

Sometimes PEACEFUL is just LESS STRESSFUL

      In LIFE YOU have to LEARN to be HAPPY even though everything in your LIFE isn't always TOTALLY HAPPY.

     When you WAKE UP in the morning you can DEFINITELY be PROUD that you WOKE UP.

      Although you are on a HEALTHY DIET you can still ENJOY some TASTEFUL alternatives.

      You may not always get EVERYTHING that you EVER WANTED but you can be very GRATEFUL that you at least have EVERYTHING that you NEED.

     A FLOWER only shows it's BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS for a SHORT TIME so STOP..... and SMELL the FLOWERS while they are BLOOMING.

     A RAINFALL may keep you from getting things done for a few moments but you KNOW we NEED the RAIN.

     Like the plaque on my wall says......

So this isn't HOME SWEET HOME just ADJUST.

     YOU must REALIZE that there will always be GOOD DAYS AND ALSO BAD DAYS.... that's JUST LIFE.

     So LEARN HOW to take all the NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so it CAN'T HOLD YOU DOWN.

      Remember that Shit HAPPENS throughout your LIFE so JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN.

If you WANT to REMEMBER IT then....

      As you are DISCUSSING how your day went..... WHAT PARTS of your DAY will you TELL THEM?

     Are you going to be TALKING about the GOOD PARTS about TODAY or are you going to TALK about the BAD PARTS about your DAY TODAY?

      If you SPEND all of your TIME TODAY LOOKING for ANYTHING that was NEGATIVE TODAY you will DEFINITELY FIND NEGATIVE THOUGHTS about TODAY.

     LIKE the TRAFFIC May have been STRESSFUL TODAY but STRESSFUL or NOT you can ARRIVE LATE and STILL be GLAD YOU ARRIVED safely.

     If you WANT to REMEMBER the GOOD PARTS of TODAY you will HAVE TO JUST STOP and ENJOY the GOOD PARTS OF TODAY.

    And REMEMBER that EVERY DAY has GOOD PARTS as well as BAD PARTS, that's JUST LIFE.

     You have to LEARN HOW to take all the NEGATIVE THINGS that happened and ACCEPT IT then.... JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

    Because if you want PEACE OF MIND you will have to take ALL the NEGATIVITY and JUST FLUSH IT so PEACE OF MIND will have ROOM to GET IN.

   If you want to SPREAD the POSITIVE message behind JUST FLUSH IT you can help me bring PEACE OF MIND to ONE PERSON at a TIME.

      

     

     

     

A GIANT THING may NEVER HAPPEN so.....

    Are you really WAITING for something extremely Big to happen?

    We all HOPE for something extremely BIG but.... unfortunately there are NOT MANY BIG THINGS that really happen very often if they even Happen  at all.

     In LIFE it is the IMPORTANT LITTLE THINGS that really happen all throughout your LIFE.

    UNFORTUNATELY if you IGNORE all the LITTLE THINGS you might IGNORE the MOST IMPORTANT THINGS in YOUR LIFE.

     You might not ACTUALLY FLY A PLANE like you had DREAMED but you can sure ENJOY TRAVELING to many places.

    You might not be a FAMOUS ARTIST but you can still ENJOY DOING ARTFUL THINGS.

     You might not be the SMARTEST PERSON but you are SMART enough to KNOW what MAKES YOU HAPPY.

    And if it MAKES YOU HAPPY then DO IT so you can be HAPPY.

     If you SPEND all your time trying to PLEASE OTHERS you will realize that YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY.

     Because the TRUTH is that if you KEEP CHANGING to please others.... you will NEVER GET TO BE YOUR HONEST SELF.

      WE all only have the TIME WE HAVE so MAKE SURE YOU ENJOY EVERY MOMENT YOU HAVE.

      At the END OF THE DAY all that matters is that you are PROUD OF EVERYTHING that you have CHOSEN TO DO.

       It's your Life..... so always CHOOSE WISELY what is actually the MOST IMPORTANT thing for YOU TO DO.