At least give them a chance

There is always a chance but only if you are given a chance will you be able to have a chance. It is only if you take advantage of the chance you are given will you benefit from the chance you are given. Some people are never given a chance yet they succeeded because they took a chance. Either way we all have a chance as long s we take advantage by doing the hard work and have the dedication that it will take if we want to make any and every chance benefit us. If you give someone the chance and they don't take it then the chances are they will have no chance at all but at least give them a chance.

Not everything is enjoyable

To enjoy those that are around you it takes dealing with the fact that not everything about them is enjoyable. I don't mean if they are "bad" for you that you be around them at all. Those you stay away from if you want to enjoy Life. But every person that is in your "inner circle" that you want to enjoy parts of your Life with you have to learn to avoid the parts about them that you don't like. We are all different and if you accept their uniqueness then you can enjoy the parts you do like. If you spend your time with them annoyed by their differences then you won't get to enjoy them at all. Enjoy who they are not all that you expect them to be.

Sometimes it takes a crisis to open your eyes

"Midlife Crisis" happens because your eyes are suddenly wide open and what you see is "The Truth." Meaning that with age comes wisdom that you are running out of time to enjoy Life while you are living. You realize sweating over the small stuff and hoping that one day you will enjoy what you got has been preventing you from enjoying your Life. You realize what is really important in Life and that opens your eyes to all the other things that you have wasted your precious time on Earth worrying and stressing over. It's time to "Just Flush It" out of your mind now so you can enjoy Life while you are alive and be thankful you learned it in your "mid-life" instead of "end of life."

Flush your painful past to enjoy your todays

Most of you already know that what has happened in the past can not be undone. What's done is done so all you can do is learn what you need to from it then "Just Flush It", it's a New Day. Today you are free to do whatever you want regardless of your past or in spite of your past and because of your past. Tricky sounding I know but you are who you are Today and Today the trick is to let go of your painful difficult past by learning how to "Just Flush It" out of your mind so you will have room for "Peace of Mind" so you can enjoy your Todays for the rest of your life.

Heartburn V.S. Heart Failure

There are aches and pains that you will face throughout life it's just life. Not everything requires a pill to relive it. The side affects that they list for these medicines can turn a simple ache into a life long altering condition. If your back hurts you may need to just rest a few days but if you take medicine it may lead to ailments that could turn it into organ failure. You don't need to take a pill to help you rest that can lead to damaging your heart you may just need to flush away thoughts that are weighing heavy on your mind so you can quietly fall asleep. You can live with Heartburn but you can't live if the medicine causes Heart Failure.

Same Body no matter how many faces

How on Earth some people walk around with two faces think that because they were able to deceive someone they got away with it. What the heck? Are you kidding me? Karma will bite them in the butt for the words and actions for each face it comes out of. They may have had a smile on the face they used to say it but Karma will make sure they won't be smiling after it bites them in the only butt that it is attached to. All you got to do is let Karma take care of it and don't do anything that will mess up your Good Karma.

Some Habits Unite Us As "Humans"

Boy what I wouldn't give to have the standards and moral judgment in society that this World had been founded on long ago. It was a much simpler time when common courtesy, common sense, and common decency was common. I had hoped that the economy crisis would bring to light the Human Basic need for Compassion for each other and Unite us as "Humans" to teach by example "Humanity." In a society full of inhumane insanity going on all around us Humanity gets lost. Teach the Habit of Humanity by getting in the Habit of connecting to your "Human Side" and Humanity will replace the Insanity we see in society.

Facts help you from having regrets

When you realize that your preconceived notion about something was not actually the true facts the fact is you judged without knowing. I wander how often this preconceived notion is based on being led to believe or the lack of seeing any reason to get the facts before we judge and react without thinking it was necessary to get all the facts. The fact is though once you have reacted you can't take it back even after you realize your actions will now be a fact that have consequences that you will now be judged by. Get the facts before you react so you can react to what you know is a fact so you won't regret your judgment.

You can drive to memory lane

We all have memories that are stored away and just the sight of an object can pull them up. As I walked through the Flea Market I stumbled upon the ugliest gaudy lamp like the one that my Aunt had owned. As I walked towards it all these sights of memories of time past spent with her came vividly popping into my mind. Just across the aisle was the Holiday dishes that we grew up eating on. Oh the smile on my face as so many happy memories popped up one after another. Although you might not buy anything at a Flea Market it is still worth the drive to just walk around and take a trip down memory lane.

It can take half a century

It is a shame that you don't recognize what is really important in Life till you are nearly a half century old. It would be a little better if you were guaranteed to live another half a century to enjoy what is really important. But not even tomorrow is guaranteed. But.... You can enjoy every moment of every day you do have enjoying what is really important. The younger you learn it the more time you will get to enjoy it.

Defense Mode turns into Attack Mode

When we walk around in anger always in Defense Mode we tend to attack with full force at those around us when simply agreeing to disagree is a more fitting response. Even if the circumstances that we face require us to be on guard and we feel attacked perhaps we need to let off a little steam instead of launching an attack with such force doing damage that was simply not necessary. The reality is if you walk around in an Angry Defense Mode just waiting for someone, expecting someone to dare make you feel attacked it won't be long before you will hear it and attack. In an instant you go from Defense Mode to attack Mode.

Always do what feels right

There are times in life when the only thing you can say is "I did what I thought I should do." Even though you worked hard to do what you thought was right in the end there are times when all you may get out of it is tired. Don't let that keep you from always doing what you feel is the right thing to do. Everything that happens in life happens for a reason and if what you do is done for all the right reasons and the right way then in the end whatever happens will be only able to have happened because you did what you felt was right. It may not be what you wanted but it is what you needed.

You are free to choose your own hairstyle

Just because you don't see it doesn't mean that they couldn't have seen it. You may not believe it is possible but that doesn't mean it can't possibly be done. It may not be what you like but others may like it. The way you do something may not be the way others do it. You may like long hair while there are others who like short hair. You may not eat Chinese food but there are thousands of Chinese restaurants. You are who you are and you are free to do whatever you want to just like other people should be free to do whatever they want without being told who they should be.

"Just Flush It" to enjoy the New Year

A skunks smell is worse than his bite but I still don't want him to have a chance to bite me. It's the same for Humans if they stink up your Life get away from them before where it will lead you will bite you in the butt in the end. Today is a New Year and it can be a New Start to a New Life if you will leave all the crap behind that was holding you back last year. Otherwise it will just be the same old crap just a different year. Make 2014 bring you "Peace of Mind" by making sure that you Flush Away what was clogging you up so "Just Flush It" so "Peace of Mind" will have room to get in. Happy New Year.