Friday, June 29, 2012

"Just Flush It" and carry on

Even when you have done all you can there are times when you will fail but don't fail yourself and stay down. "Just Flush It" and carry on. Even if you don't get everything you want you can get up and regroup and still get everything you need. "It's OK to sit on your pity-potty every now and again just be sure and flush when you are done." In today's society we all have had things done or said to us that without a doubt we didn't deserve and we could place blame for the problems we are facing but knowing who or what to blame will not fix your problems. Keeping them fresh on your mind will only let it hurt you over and over again. Minimize the damage by learning from it what you need to then "Just Flush It" out of your mind.

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

They feel no shame

Sometimes I just want to scream "What the heck is wrong with people." People seem to have become almost non Human. Not to mention how selfish and angry they are all the time; they feel no compassion, no shame, and they feel no guilt for the inhumane treatment of others that they cause. Even though I know that it means they will never be able to feel true pride or joy either, it is no punishment for them either because they are not Human enough to care. Show therefore teach the habit of Compassion to plant seeds of Humanity wherever, whenever, and to whomever you can to replace the insanity we see in society.

Monday, June 25, 2012

There is no punishment for the crime

Although what's right or wrong may be clear it is not clear why far too many people get away and seem to prosper by doing the wrong things. The saying "crime doesn't pay" applies to legal issues but morally there seems to be no punishment for the crime of being morally wrong or ethically wrong and they get away with deceiving other people which allows them to legally get away with profiting from it. Your character and your reputation use to decide your fate in life, nowadays there are all kinds of characters that are ruining the reputation of compassion that Humans are known for that are deciding your fate in life.

Friday, June 22, 2012

The "Peter Pan Syndrome"

Looking back at what I thought "grown-up" life would be like when graduating high school, I see just how far off I was. Throughout time since then I have learned the truth and I have seen more than enough to know that your age is only part of being "grown-up." The other part is whether you choose to act like a "grown-up." We all can see the philosophy of Peter Pan and not wanting to grow up but far too many people are acting as if they are still young causing unnecessary consequences for other grown ups. We all end up paying the price for those who have the "Peter Pan Syndrome."

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Start by looking out for each other

It is not as simple as feeling safe as long as you watched your back these days. Nowadays it's dangerous not only 360 degrees around you but things seem to fall from the sky and the ground crumbles beneath your feet. What the heck? Perhaps since it seems to be happening to everyone we can band together and start looking out for each other, knowing that "United We Stand" is the only way any of us will be able to stand on our own. It is hard for any of us to thrive and grow wherever you may live when we get attacked from every angle every step of the way. If we would start by looking out for each other then the outlook for the future is good.

Monday, June 18, 2012

It would only take one generation

If each adult would make sure that they show therefore teach compassion to every child and young adult that they come in contact with throughout life it would take only one generation to plant enough positive seeds in the World to make a positive difference in the tone in society. A child learns from those around them and the environment they live in. It teaches them what is expected and accepted in society. It will determine the standards and morals that they live by as a human being. If your own family or those around you are unreachable then reach out and spread positive seeds in another family.

Friday, June 15, 2012

It is up to you

If you don't do what it takes to get where you need to be then don't say "You Can't." If you don't work to get what you need then don't get mad when you don't get it. If you don't do something to reach your goal then you will never reach it. If all you do is sit around and complain about your problems then your problems will never get resolved. If you want any kind of results you will have to do something. It is up to you to do what you need to get done what you need done so just get up and "get 'r done."

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Make the necessary adjustments

Well it seems as if there is no end to the unfortunate circumstances that we are sometimes put in through no fault of our own. In a hectic World it is a struggle to have "peace of mind." You must flush it as it comes or it will clog up your mind allowing no room for "inner peace" to have any chance of getting in. If the situation or the people causing you stress can be eliminated all together then by all means you should flush them out of your mind and out of your life immediately. If for some reason they are a necessary part of your life then make the necessary adjustments to make it work.

Monday, June 11, 2012

You don't give till it hurts

If you keep bailing other people out while you financially get sunk yourself you will only sink and they will still sink after you no longer are able to bail them out. Make sure you are stable and anchored and only give what you can without sacrificing what you need for yourself. If you have to give up what you need to give to another then it should be a no brainier. You don't give till it hurts you give what you can without hurting yourself. Take care of you first then if you can and only if you can you will be able to help them if you want to.

Friday, June 8, 2012

Save your energy

The weight of the burdens you are facing today are overwhelming but if you try to carry around the weight of your painful past or past mistakes also then it will weigh you down. Lighten your load by letting go of your past that is weighing heavy on your mind by learning to "Just Flush It" out of your mind. What is done is done. It is what it is. Learn from it what you need to then "Just Flush It." It only happened once yet you have lived through it over and over again by thinking about it over and over again. Minimize the damage by not reliving it in your mind, "Just Flush It" and save your energy for the battles you are facing today.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Think before you hit send

If you write it in black and white whether by text, e-mail, tweets, or face book message it will be in permanent ink. Take the time to think about that before you hit send. You can not deny it nor take it back when it is etched in cyberspace stone with permanent ink. You can't hide it from anyone and anyone has the right to and they will use it against you. "Be careful what you say" takes on a whole new meaning when you say it in writing with permanent ink. Think about it before you hit send.

Monday, June 4, 2012

It raises your blood pressure

There is a limit to the amount of stress that each one of us can handle before we collapse. Many people have been brought down by being under too much stress that they just can't think straight and their decisions under stress only make matters worse. Eliminate any stress you can and avoid stressful situations. Don't let the simple things like being caught in traffic, or not having enough time in your day to get everything done, nor a simple bad hair day be added to your stresses in life that you must face. Too much stress can lead to Instant Cardiac Arrest by literally squeezing the life out of you. If it isn't a life or death situation then don't make it one by raising your blood pressure and risk Sudden Death by worrying about it.

Friday, June 1, 2012

If only it was that easy

It seems like such a simple thing to just simply always be treated fairly. Why is it then that so many of us are treated so unfairly? If we all simply treated others as we would want to be treated then we would all be able to count on fair treatment that would simply make life a little more simpler in these hectic times we are living in. Not knowing what to expect makes your stress level rise which puts a tremendous strain on your body causing permanent damage physically even if what you were so stressed out over never happened. Imagining the worse stresses your mind, body, and soul so don't get stressed out until it is a fact that you must deal with it.