Pay ATTENTION to YOUR OWN BUSINESS

     What SOMEONE ELSE THINKS is WHAT THEY THINK ..... REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU THINK.

     What SOMEONE ELSE FEELS is WHAT THEY FEEL.... REGARDLESS of HOW YOU FEEL about it.

    What makes SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY is what MAKES THEM HAPPY..... REGARDLESS if it DOESN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY OR NOT.

   Because LIFE is NOT ALL ABOUT YOU all the TIME.... YOU DO YOU..... and LET THEM DO THEM.

    Which is WHY.....IF IT MAKES YOU HAPPY.....then WHO CARES WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS....

   ALWAYS REMEMBER that as long as it MAKES YOU HAPPY and IT DOESN'T HURT ANYONE ELSE....THEN...JUST DO IT.

   😃....DON'T WORRY....BE HAPPY.

   

    

     

    

The ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS is....... ENDLESS

     Have you ever been UNABLE TO SLEEP because you couldn't STOP THINKING about STUPID IRRELEVANT THINGS?

    Have you ever been UNABLE TO MAKE A DECISION because you couldn't THINK CLEARLY because you couldn't STOP THINKING about STUPID IRRELEVANT THINGS?

   Have you ever been UNABLE TO GET MOTIVATED because you couldn't STOP THINKING about..........ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that you NEEDED TO DO...... to the point where you became PHYSICALLY EXHAUSTED by OVERTHINKING ABOUT IT?

    Our minds have an ENDLESS STREAM OF THOUGHTS trying to GRAB OUR ATTENTION.

    ONE THOUGHT AT A TIME you have to take those STUPID IRRELEVANT THOUGHTS and JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind!

    Tomorrow is ALL ABOUT THINKING about what you are THANKFUL FOR and being THANKFUL that you are ALIVE to ENJOY THANKSGIVING with EVERYONE.

     Happy THANKSGIVING 🦃 

    

    

Don't let being STRESSED....STRESS you out

    When throughout the year I find myself starting to get FRUSTRATED over LITTLE THINGS I have to STOP and RELAX for a SECOND.

    I have to REMIND myself NOT TO SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF.

    Because if you DON'T JUST FLUSH IT quickly it can really BECOME VERY STRESSFUL.

    As I was putting up my Christmas tree ornaments I suddenly LOST MY GRIP and the ORNAMENT I was holding fell to the ground and BROKE.

     I had to STOP and take a DEEP BREATH and remember that to stay in a HOLLY JOLLY MOOD I had to just CLEAN IT UP and JUST FLUSH IT out of my mind.

     I had to be THANKFUL that ONLY ONE BROKE and I DIDN'T BREAK the ENTIRE BOX OF ORNAMENTS.

    I had to KEEP GOING UP AND DOWN the LADDER because I had to KEEP our CHRISTMAS TREE on TOP of the TABLE to prevent OUR PUPPY from destroying all the ORNAMENTS. 

    So LOSING ONLY ONE was a whole lot better than LOSING MY TREASURED ORNAMENTS I have been COLLECTING FOR DECADES.

    But BREAKING that ONE ORNAMENT made me DECIDE that there were a FEW SPECIAL BREAKABLE ORNAMENTS that I would JUST KEEP SAFE by DISPLAYING them on my SHELF instead.

    Because like they say.... If you SEE TROUBLE COMING.... GET OUT OF IT'S WAY to AVOID THE TROUBLE.

   Wishing HAPPY HOLIDAYS to EVERYONE from my family to your family.

    

No we won't be coming for THANKSGIVING may not be what you want to hear but....

    It looks like HALF of MY family will be going out of town to CELEBRATE Thanksgiving.

    At first WE DEBATED on whether we should STILL have a big Thanksgiving Feast but....

    In the end We have DECIDED that we STILL WANTED to have all the TRADITIONAL FAVORITES.

    We just had to remember that we didn't NEED to make ENOUGH to feed an ARMY, we just NEEDED ENOUGH to Feed a HANDFUL OF PEOPLE.

     It WON'T be the same without all the GRANDKIDS but we can still have a THANKSGIVING FEAST to ENJOY EATING.

    As the FAMILIES grow older they start their OWN TRADITIONS for the HOLIDAYS SO.... 

    We will just have to START PLANNING on CELEBRATING a FEW DAYS BEFORE the ACTUAL HOLIDAY for now on.

    It doesn't matter WHAT ACTUAL DAY you CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS TOGETHER as long as you are able to CELEBRATE THEM TOGETHER.

   LIFE is always CHANGING and you have to ADJUST to the CHANGES to ENJOY LIFE WHILE YOU ARE LIVING IT.

     

   

Sometimes you have to ADJUST as you go

     When LIFE drops a BOULDER on your LIFE'S JOURNEY that BLOCKS YOUR PATH.... just WALK AROUND IT and STAY ON TRACK.

     When things CHANGE.... You will just have to MAKE the NECESSARY CHANGES in order to STAY ON TRACK.

     The ROLLERCOASTER OF LIFE is full of CHALLENGES that you will have to FIND a way to CONQUER in order to STAY ON TRACK.

    Sometimes you will have to BEND LIKE A PRETZEL to MANEUVER your way through the OBSTACLES just to STAY ON TRACK.

    LIFE is a JOURNEY and YOUR JOURNEY will take MAKING ADJUSTMENTS as you go on your JOURNEY to STAY ON TRACK, THAT'S JUST LIFE.

     Your ABILITY to TWIST AND TURN to STAY ON TRACK will give you the ABILITY to ENJOY EVERYDAY on your LIFE'S JOURNEY while you are LIVING IT.

     When the GOING GETS TOUGH you will just have to DIG DOWN DEEP INSIDE YOURSELF to get through the TOUGH TIMES.

     I WISH I could tell you that LIFE WAS EASY but the TRUTH IS that IT ISN'T.

     There will be MOMENTS when you will have to face TOUGH TIMES, THAT'S JUST LIFE.

      But I can tell you that to ENJOY LIFE you have to ENJOY IT while you are LIVING IT because WE ONLY HAVE THE TIME WE HAVE to ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WE DO HAVE.

    

Do you honestly THINK they even REMEMBER?

     Do you really THINK that they even REMEMBER the NEGATIVE words that they said to you?

     I have seen people REMAIN IMMOBILIZED for  YEARS because someone said something HURTFUL to them YEARS AGO.

     They need to take those NEGATIVE THOUGHTS and JUST FLUSH IT out of their MIND and get moving forward.

     I GUARANTEE you that those who have HURT you DON'T EVEN REMEMBER saying it and YOU DEFINITELY SHOULDN'T keep it FRESH ON YOUR MIND.

    Don't let NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES from your past STINK UP your TODAYS..... JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind.

     If you want PEACE OF MIND you have to take all the NEGATIVE CRAP that HAPPENS while you are on your LIFE'S JOURNEY and.....JUST FLUSH IT out of your mind so PEACE OF MIND has ROOM to GET IN. 

    EVERYONE of us ONLY have the TIME we have which is WHY we ALL need to ENJOY EVERY MOMENT of the TIME we have.

    

     

Not everyone likes the COLOR Blue but you can still like the COLOR BLUE

     You can still ENJOY going OUT TO EAT with your friend that is a VEGETARIAN.... just DON'T try to make them eat any MEAT.

     You might not have CHOSEN to BUY a BLUE CAR....but you can still ENJOY RIDING around with your FRIEND in THEIR new BLUE CAR.

    You may CHOOSE to CELEBRATE things that other people CHOOSE NOT to CELEBRATE, it's YOUR CHOICE.

    INSTEAD of getting ANGRY because someone THINKS DIFFERENTLY than YOU DO.... BE THANKFUL that EVERYONE has the RIGHT to THINK DIFFERENTLY.

    If you want to have the FREEDOM to BE YOU.....THEN.....You have to RESPECT that everyone has the FREEDOM to BE THEMSELVES.

    In the GOOD OLD DAYS we didn't FIGHT with EACH OTHER just because we had a DIFFERENCE IN OPINIONS....we just ENJOYED spending time with EACH OTHER.

   Nowadays we have SO MANY SUBJECTS that we CAN'T TALK ABOUT because of OUR DIFFERENCES IN OPINIONS that there are a lot of MOMENTS OF AWKWARD SILENCE.

     If we were ALL THE SAME..... LIFE would be pretty BORING.